Visiting the Karappath Family

Posted by Monica:
The past 10 days in India have been truly amazing and we have had so many wonderful experiences. I really feel like we are enjoying our travels in India to the fullest. The southern state of Kerala is beautiful and filled with the kindest people. It was our great fortune to stay with the Karappath family in Kannur for one evening.

I must admit this was one of the best times I have had so far. We met Dr. Karappath Abdul Azeez when we first arrived in Mumbai, and he invited us to visit his family during our travels. So we did. With open arms we were invited into his home and into the homes of many other family members and neighbors.



The Karappaths are Indian-Muslim family and have three wonderful and gracious daughters ages 7-14. Many of our experiences have been “public” (ie. bike riding, sightseeing and general travel outside) and I have felt a dominant male influence in a majority of my interactions while traveling. Because of this, I felt especially fortunate and happy to be invited into the realm of Indian women. Briefly, I was part of their world: folding clothes, visiting neighbors, trying on saris, talking about marriage and hanging out in the kitchen. Umaiza, the mother, was generous, open and made me feel completely at home. She even shared some of her tasty recipes, which I can’t wait to prepare when we return.


Umaiza and Ala in the Kitchen

The oldest child Ala Beegum practiced her translation skills during our stay and was articulate, bold and full of kindest. The two youngest were a little more timid and complete joy to spend time with. This experience has transformed my perception of the Indian family and, in particular, Indian-Muslim women. In the home the women are the nucleus of activity. They are sources of great strength and create a sacred and secure place in which they thrive. Needless to say I was a bit sad at our parting but I am eternally grateful for been able to meet such a wonderful family during our time in India.

Sean with coconuts fresh from the tree

A neighborhood monkey